Sunday, 12 July 2009

The amazing recuperative powers of sleep

I have had some sleep, been for a walk and feel much better this morning. I have alos rung the hopsital. She hasnt seen the orthopaedic surgeon yet but should do do today. I hope I am there when he comes.

Alma was very surprised by the news. Like me she is wondering what the pain was if the break was caused by the fall - but really that is irrelevant. We are where we are and we move forward.

The break is in the top of the fibula near the knee. Jane tells me that is where she had her break in 96. One result of that break was Jane getting a blue badge. I am wondering exactly what effect this will have on Edna's mobility if it did that to an otherwise healthy 50 year old. Edna would already have a blue badge if she bothered to apply for one. I would like her too as it would make it so much easier when she does go out.

This may force her to re-think the issue of the wheelchair.

As well as physical concerns I am concerned about how she will hold up mentally. If she gets very confused I may be needed a lot by the hospital. I hope the orthopod takes note of the fact that she does have dementia.

I am reluctant to be a pushy relative and insist I am there for all consultations because Edna probably wouldnt react well to that - but I am anxious about Edna understanding anything she consents to.

But unless SHE consents to me being involved it cant happen

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