A timely refelction

I subscribe to health fitness and weight loss site that sends out various newsletters every day. One is called 'Healthy reflections. I often put these in my other blog about managing changes in my life - the mian chnage I am trying to manage being getting rid of my excess fat!

However this one seems very apt for this blog.

One common trait to nearly every good leader is the art of listening. Many times, the best leaders can be among the quietest in the room. They know their time is well spent in hearing new perspectives, ideas, and thoughts. It's how they grow personally and build visions. The wisest leaders know that hearing themselves talk is no way to build trust and goodwill. You can do the same thing. When a friend needs to talk, resist the urge to give advice right away and just listen. Ask questions, and really try to understand the answer. When a customer calls, don't say a word about your product until you fully know their needs. When your spouse is hurting, it's not the time to prove that you were right. Over time, you can develop that leader-like sense of when to open your mouth and when to keep it clamped firmly shut.

In a way I am trying to 'lead' a diverse gorup of Edna and her carers down a path that works for all of them - the goal being Edna's continued health. I know I tend to jump to conclusions sometimes. I do need to listen to what everyone - especially Edna is saying to make sure I have the full picture. I ama good listener - its one reason why I have ended up being an agony auntto so many people over the years . It is something I pride myself on. I need to use those skills now with Edna

Today the plan is thast I am taking Edna out to do her shopping for the first time in a long time. I wonder if she will go or find an excuse to duck out of it? If she does I need to hear the message behind her words and actions.

May God grant me the grace to hear properly, the discernment to understand properly and the patience to cope.